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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

THE UNANSWERED!

Why is there a 'WHY' to everything..!?!
Why should every action, every thought be questioned?
Why can't the mind silently make a choice?
Why can't the heart ever try?
Why do people need answers?
Why does every forehead frown upon a change?
Why can someone not be different?
Why can one not follow thier thoughts?
Why can't i choose my way?
Why can't i make a mistake?
Why should I regret all that i say??

Every day..is a new way..
Every path..a different one..
Every second..there are new thoughts..

We might make decisions too fast..that they dont last..but..these decisions are the ones that make up a life..these are the ones that are truly 'yours'..

'Impulse' aint a useless word..it means..strength..strength to bear a decision..forever!
Everyone must have made wrong decisions..But that doesn't mean..the decision has to be questioned every moment??

Each mistake brings with it precious moments..moments of happiness..sorrow..love..friendship..success..failure..betrayal!

I accept my mistake!
I accept the mistake as an experience!

Today..i was asked..'WHY'?
And all i wish to say is..'because i felt like'!

28 comments:

nj-roxxs said...

i wana ask "WHY ???" why werent u writing regularly before ...why ?? awesome .... simply legen----wait for it --- dary ..."legendary"

Pooja Murthy said...

@nj : thanks! and..i will try to be regular now!

Unknown said...

ummm... :p

lemme remind u,, the question isnt "why".. it has always been "why not"... xperiences from the past sud always guide your future and not hold you back... decisions aint being questiond.. they r jst told to b givn a second thot!!

Pooja Murthy said...

yeah..the question always has been 'why not'..i know.. but today..it was not!
today..it was 'why'? and as the world says..all 'why's' need to be answered..so here is the answer to your 'why?'!

Pooja Murthy said...

and..nope! i dont let the past affect the future! i thought you knew me better than that!

Unknown said...

impulsive u might have been... but no mre, patience is wht you "learned"... n u r nw being impulsive to impose wht u learnd on evry opportunity.. but u 'ought to' remmbr once u miss it, you will always b regretting lattr... n othrs too have made mistakes, they dont say it but they too have experience n they say it nw coz they knw, hw it will b at the end!!.. still "why" ws not the question may be not evn "why not" this time but ws it "realize it" or ws it "share it"... tht u decide!!

Unknown said...

i thot u wud undrstand but may b im nt tht expressive as u..(tht y u r becomin a writr n im still have trouble wid swings) :p n ya im srry if i mde a wrng expression tht i didnt mean to.. :p :p

Pooja Murthy said...

phew! first of all..i dont agree with you!i am not imposing anything..second..what you are talking about here..the saying 'yes' thing..is not important! there are a thousand other things to worry about! and 'opportunities'??? hahaha!!

PS: what experience did you have?? others??

PPS:what is swings???

Unknown said...

chod yaar... teri apni lyf hai... kuch bhi kar... khush reh!!..

vese yaar mast likha hai.. to be writr... yaab rakhiyo treat moti mahal.. :p :p

eagermeagre said...

i felt happy reading it
(you know why)
as i say one shall not question their decisions...
love you!

Pooja Murthy said...

@piyush: no..i will not take that comment..'teri life hai..kuch bi kar'! huh! i think i will have to explain everything to you personally! :|

Pooja Murthy said...

@scars-0n-the-soul : finally! :)

Unknown said...

you hve written something very thought provoking!!!!n sumthing v ol deal with....oder ppl questionin us,our decisions n everybody is ready to give a piece off their mind!!even at sum point of time we regret ny decision of ours atleast dere will b a satisfaction of knowing that wat v did was of our own accord....atlst we followed our heart....most of all we"ll not blame anybody else

Unknown said...

i would say that just think for a minute about the time when you were asked a simple "why",.,i guess that the persons who had asked you this 'why' would be your closed ones because they care for you.,.,and i personally think that we should never hesitate or hide our thoughts from those who like us,.,,vase you write fantastically yaar,.,excellent,.,u will definetely achieve your best(refer to the comment posted in the previous blog).,.

Unknown said...

but den sumtyms its for our 4 own benefit.....we all hve to learn from our past....we all make mistakes so sumtimes its better that we dont tread on the wrong path on which others hve walked before...all in all its ur discretion dat matters...as they say....let common sense prevail:

nj-roxxs said...

pooja yeh toh political turn leeyeh jaa raha hai ....

Unknown said...

u hve the makings of a gr8 writer dosst!!!excellently written

Pooja Murthy said...

@piyush, P!YU$# : oops! nope..i dint mean you dont have a right to ask..! you have a right to question me at any time..this post means..there is no point regretting or questioning our decisions again and again! love you people! no offence meant! its not about 'hiding thoughts'..as if i can do that when i have people like you around!..but..i have been asked that a thousand times before..and no..not YOU! there are other unwanted people who want answers to everything..
for YOU..i am ready to answer a 'thousand times over'!

PS: you asked because you care..i answered here..because maybe..i dint have the strength to answer there! and i definitely dont mean you cant..but i mean..everyone cant question!

Pooja Murthy said...

@akshara : thanks! :) your praise definitely means something..cuz..there z a lot i can get to know from you! and yeah..start BLOGGING! :)

Pooja Murthy said...

@ Piyush : i think that explanation was not enough..i wish to say something more..at any point of our life..we have to take decisions..which are certainly affected by the circumstances at that time..and later..a wrong decision keeps coming back to you..all the time..all i mean is..there is no reason to question a decision or regret over it..past is past! a memory! the present..is what matters! and..if we start questioning every decision..tab toh..band bajega!!
as i said the other day..the first MISTAKE of my life..do you think i should regret that?? if i had not made that mistake..i would not have met YOU..! see..experiences!

dint mean to hurt you! but i just put into words what i had in my mind!

Pooja Murthy said...

@nj : your views please! i think i need to see everyone's take on this!

navneet said...

questioning again and again SOME decisions may feel bad..but discussing with close ones is always a good idea...questioning and discussing are two things..and 'learn from mistakes...never regrets !'

lol...meine post kar diya :p

Unknown said...

ummmmmmmm.... :p like i started..

well the whole thing as i see it has taken a vry different turn so firstly lemme bring it back to the "point"... before tht-- "YOU DONT HAV To B SORRY ABT ANYTHNG"... if u think v r close enough to question u, then u too r close enough to not to say sorry on such things!!!...

n the main reason y i commented on it ws tht i wantd to u to think "why not".. n i hav the intuition tht u have 'really' givn it a thot... n u mst hav got the answr too but jst to b sure :p, i will add on a few things,,,-

well Pooja u have always been the mst mature yet vry kiddish since the time i first got to knw u, it has always been- us takin advice frm u n also on this conflict of views, i think u knw wht to do bt thr is something tht is keepin u frm doin it... n wht im trin to do is to make u feel tht thr isnt nething tht has to b thot abt whn u hav such opportunities in front of u... u knw wht, i lied, whn i said i will say no to the grl who comes n proposes to me in usa while im trin fr my love... coz IT IS vry hard to find such luv in lyf, mst of the time its nly attraction, if nt tht it is nly affection tht is mistaken to b luv.. if u ask me nw wht i wud do in tht vry same situation, i will say- im uncertain of the decision tht J*** will take abt me but i will sure giv the relationship wid the othr grl A CHANCE... (thrs lots i want to add to it right nw, but its nt required so lets nt get into it.. :p ) n same is wht i want u to do... coz if u loss it nw, it wont come back again... no one is a fool lyk me to wait fr a lyftime.. evry one has thr own period of time till which they cn wait n whn it has passed, ur "YES" will have no values, it wont b abe to bring to u the luv tht u deserve, u have to accpt tht thr cn b othrs who cn giv u wht u desrve n wht u ought to get...

but yes, i dont knw wht a grl feels lyk or wht u both have talkd abt n lots of many othr things... thus i will nevr force u coz u knw-- such decisions always get back to u in lyk again n again!!!! n ur closed (hehe, i dont knw y jalu is using this word so often) frnds wud nevr want u to tak wrong decisions or lets say decisions tht have the slightest of possibility to bring sadness to u!!... so jst tak a chill pill n think abt it the whole weekend whn u have lots n lots of time.. :p :p :p or evn longr bt jst dont cross his "period of time" lol.. ;) tc dost!!

Unknown said...

ooo bhai,,,,, itna likha hai mene :p... yaar ab toh mai bhi book likh sakta hu.. hehe..my first book-- "wht and why not" lol hehehe ;)

Pooja Murthy said...

whhhhaaaaaaaaaattttttttt!!!!!!
i dint know you could write soooooo much at a stretch!! :P:P
anyway..okay! its today..that i got your point!:)
i will surely think over it..and let YOU know!

Unknown said...

:p...

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prerna said...

stupendous